Mental Health, | 03.31.22
Here are some strategies to help you say no confidently and guilt free…
A simple “No thank you” can be effective. Say it in a respectful manner with a smile, and move on. Some people may ask follow-up questions out of their own insecurities or curiosity, but some people will accept it without a second thought.
Talk to your family and friends about your food and lifestyle goals and why these changes are so important to you. If they truly care for you, then your goals will mean something to them as well. Give them a chance to love and support you through this journey.
When someone offers you a cupcake and you say that you “can’t” eat it, it sounds more like a limitation than a choice. This undermines your sense of power, which others get this impression as well. If you say you “don’t” don’t eat sugar it is experienced as empowering and within your control, as it is a choice you made. This shows others your determination and may make them think twice about questioning or pressuring you.
People like to talk about themselves. Ask your uncle John about his most recent fishing trip. Let your cousin Sarah brag about her son’s self-evaluated genius level achievements in 2nd grade. Steer aunt Laurie towards talking about her pet cats, who you know are really more like her children. It makes them feel good, but also takes the spotlight off of you.
When you are saying no to something, you are really saying yes to something else. In this case, you are saying yes to yourself, your goals, and your health.
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